Maybe Home Ownership Isn’t For You

lawn mowing, home ownership, home owner

Buying a home is  probably the biggest financial and emotional decision you will ever make. Preparing your self for home ownership financially is only one part of the battle, but even before dwelling into the finances, deciding on whether home ownership is your cup of tea should be ‘numero uno’ task for any homeowner to be. Even though home ownership is a dream for most people, there’s much more to home ownership than paying the mortgage every month – something that many discover over time.

If you’re not prepared for the upkeep, or to replace your roof and those rotting windows, owning a home may not be your thing. Stick to renting instead, and let someone else worry about all those things. Some folks are happier and better off renting. Certainly there’s nothing wrong with their choice. Heck, who are we to judge someone throwing their money away and paying off someone’s mortgage. We (the homeowners) are dishing out 80% of the mortgage payment towards interest within the first five years of the mortgage.

Before you dive into home ownership have an idea of the advantages and disadvantages of being a homeowner because a significant portion of cash is removed from your monthly income and you will be required to make certain sacrifices. Are you really committed to make sacrifices to be a home owner? The upkeep, fixing, painting, unexpected maintenance costs, home insurance, upgrades, and not the little country home with a a white picket fence and a dog on the front veranda that you see in every Hollywood movie. Home ownership is REAL, and if you’re not prepared for sacrifices and unexpected twists and turns – please do all of us a favor and stay a renter.

One of the main advantages to being a homeowner is financial security-your home will provide you some financial security from capital appreciation if housing prices are rising. For much of the last fifty years in most Canadian housing markets, prices have been rising. However, there are no guarantees in life!

Here are some signs that home ownership may not be for you.

1. Variable Income

Anyone who has a variable income will tell you that budgeting is hard – no matter how good they might be at budgeting. Managing the cash flow becomes particularly hard during slow periods (and every job has those), so having to pay a mortgage, taxes, upkeep, utilities, insurance – equals a shit load of bills to pay, and food, life, or transportation has yet to be factored in. Not having the adequate funds will create a lot of stress, lead one to dip into their line-of-credit, credit cards or other forms of credit – which leads into more debt. Let me tell you, nobody wants to refinance their debt into the mortgage – that’s the last resort  for any home owner.

2. Temp or Seasonal Employment

Unless you’re really good at saving money (most aren’t) it’s tough to afford a home on temporary or seasonal employment. In most cases you’re either working during the warmer months or the colder months due to the requirements for your job. Having a consistent income stream is one thing – having an inconsistent stream spells for a disaster.

3. You live Paycheck-to-Paycheck

Again, sticking to the topic of saving money – if you’re the type that lives paycheck-to-paycheck, doesn’t save for emergencies or retirement or budgets – home ownership is probably not for you. There are too many variable expenses to take on, and sometimes you need to use the emergency savings – like for that leaky roof.  Majority of home buyers don’t FULLY plan ahead, and instead deplete their RRSPs, emergency funds, and other savings accounts in order to drop enough down-payment. Sure, sounds easy, but how about replenishing those accounts for rainy days? Most never do!

4. You’re a Frequent Mover

If you career requires you to relocate often, selling and buying homes will drain your wallet. Lawyer fees, land-transfer fees, sales agent commission and moving costs are just some of the costs associated every time you buy and sell a home. Instead stick to renting – one written check takes care of the home costs, and you don’t have to scramble to buy or sell.

5. Impatience & Home Maintenance Desire

Owning a home is like dating a high maintenance woman – it requires a lot of attention. No matter what weekend, week or the 52 weeks in a year – there is always something to be done on a house. Even if you own a condo (like me), there’s always something to paint, clean, plumb, replace or throwout. What makes home maintenance so expensive is not the actual labor, because you’ll end up doing most of it your self and if you have no willingness to learn, patience or a strong desire for proper upkeep – you’ll be paying through your nose for someone else to do it. The more you can do yourself, the more money you’ll save in the long run. In four short years of being a home owner I’ve become a solid home cleaner, newbie electrician and plumber and a skilled painter.

6. You Don’t Earn Enough Moolah

How much do you need to earn in order to afford home ownership? That solely depends on how much home you buy, and since your Real Estate Agent and your mortgage broker are not actually on your side you’ll likely buy more home than you can actually afford. Most people, especially first time home buyers that come from renting are under the misconception that home ownership costs the same as renting. It’s anything but that actually. No wonder so many end up house poor, because they forget to factor in the little costs.

7. You Can’t Sacrifice Play Time

Part of being a home owner (something I learned very quickly) is to sacrifice playtime, travel and spending money when you’re out. Maybe your friends want to go away this weekend, but guess what? You have a house to paint. That’s sacrifice, and choosing priorities over playtime. I have friends that travel 4-5 times a years down south to different resorts – nothing wrong with that, but unless you make a shit load of money or rent for cheap – I don’t see that happening. One of the biggest parts people forget about being a home owner is that you need to be ready to sacrifice your time, money and sometimes values.

Final Thoughts

I was (and still am) one of those people that will tell you that you’re wasting your money by not buying a home. In fact I insist that home ownership is the only way to go – that’s if you’re in the right frame of mind for home ownership. Not everybody is cut out for home ownership. Some of my closest friends prefer to rent and travel the world. My self on the other hand,  I’m more low key, enjoy home ownership and instead travel once or twice a year. There’s no right or wrong, it’s preference and what you believe in and where you want to be in the future.

Being a homeowner I sometimes resent all the work involved, but I’ve learned a lot on the go about home ownership, maintenance, and have put my self in good contact with contractors for more complex projects. My desire for home ownership continues to grow daily as my lifelong goal is to become a landlord and have rental properties. I like seeing the fruits of my investment first-hand and I enjoy the learning curve along the way.

There is more to life than home ownership, and it isn’t the only way. If you ENJOY owning a home, more power to you. But not everyone does.

Readers, what are your thoughts on home ownership? Is it all that it’s made out to be? What do you think of renting?

Cheers!

Eddie

Photo Credit (courosa)

Comments

  1. Owning a home has been a great thing but for the reasons you’ve stated it might not fit for some people. The time sacrifice is a big deal: mowing, repairing things, fertilizing, and keeping the house clean is a bit commitment.

    Frankly, as we’re trying to sell our house right now, I’d say that the biggest pain in home ownership has been trying to sell our house. It’s not been a fun process and something I don’t want to do again for a LONG time.
    Jason recently posted..Recipe: Blean Bean Quinoa BurgersMy Profile

  2. The return on rent is always -100%. I want to have an asset to enjoy and pass on to family.

    The retal stock isn’t good in SF compared to
    The ownership stock.
    Sam recently posted..Working Is To Capitalism As Retirement Is To SocialismMy Profile

  3. The line” Owning a home is like dating a high maintenance woman – it requires a lot of attention” made me lol. It’s a good analogy.

    I currently rent right now and the price includes parking and utilities. Its very convenient. My bf and I are currently house hunting right now. He’s quite handy and has had a lot of experience with renovations. Me, however not so much. Even though I don’t own my apartment, I already find there’s a lot things to be done around the apartment. Just the cleaning alone! I don’t have a dishwasher either and the washer and dryer is in the basement so laundry takes up some time. Although it is on such a smaller scale compared to the upkeep of owning your own place, I think it gives me a small taste of what its like to maintain a living space.
    MakintheBacon$ recently posted..Makin the Mileage: The Bacon Road Trips Out East – Part IMy Profile

  4. A home would be nice because of the extra space that we need when family comes to visit. Other than that, I like my 700 sq. ft. apt.

    I am not ready for the maintenance or cleaning a house requires. I’m just not.
    savvyfinanciallatina recently posted..$17620 in Student LoansMy Profile

  5. A big factor is how important it is to personalize your digs. Even if owning is more expensive, that’s important enough for us to spend the extra $$$.

  6. I agree with all the points that you have here. I think some people underestimate the time and money you need to invest into home ownership. I must admit I have to chuckle when I see my neighbours pay for someone to mow their lawn and trim the edges around their lawn when they are perfectly capable but that’s a whole other story. Then you have the people who buy the home then lose their jobs and everything falls to pieces even relationships. That happened to a couple on our street. They put $0 into the home and walked away with 14k plus what they put down in just 4 years of owning it.
    Cheers… good points.
    Canadianbudgetbinder recently posted..Back to School Student Budget For College or UniversityMy Profile

  7. Most people have the dream of owning their own home, but have no clue as to what they are getting into. I remember being that young first time home owner, so excited, until I had to be responsible for the maintenance of the house, yard, etc. The cost of getting into my house, pretty much wiped out my bank account. Then there came all the things I needed to purchase to maintain the yard, and my new home. No matter how new the home is you need to make purchases for the upkeep. Always have extra money on hand to pay for these costs, otherwise you might go into debt for these added things.

  8. A lot of the cash flow problems can be a problem for renters, too. Mostly I see it as getting in the way of getting a mortgage for people; in my area you spend about the same amount OR LESS if you’re a homeowner than a renter every month. That’s not accounting for those little variable expenses that come up, though. I think these are great points and everyone needs to consider their situation responsibly before making such an emotional choice.
    femmefrugality recently posted..Free Education Brought to you by Social EntrepreneurshipMy Profile

  9. Variable or Irregular income is a major hurdle to overcome when it comes to buying a home and securing a mortgage. Two important things you need to do is base your income on the “lower end” of your average monthly incomes. When you have a “surplus” of money coming in, that money should go into your emergency fund to help even out the cashflows…
    Benjamin @ Trees Full of Money recently posted..How to Kill Ants, Spiders and Ticks (DIY Pest Control and Extermination)My Profile

  10. Owning a home is a huge commitment. I recently bought but when the housing market crashed had to foreclose. I ended up losing a lot of money that I was not prepared to lose. There are a lot of great points in the article, thanks for sharing!

Trackbacks

  1. Calling the Puts...Weekend Roundup: Finding a Tenant Edition - Calling the Puts... says:

    [...]  Eddie at Finance Fox writes Maybe Home Ownership Isn’t For You.  I think that he provided some reasons about why people shouldn’t own a [...]

  2. [...] Maybe Home Ownership Isn’t For You – Finance Fox [...]

  3. [...] likely at work, not working today or coming home from work now. You woke up this morning in your rented apartment and went to work in your rented car and sat in your corner office or cubical that is [...]

  4. [...] have much time to save a lot of money. My goal is to take advantage….. Eddie @ Finance Fox writes Maybe Home Ownership Isn't For You – There is more to life than home ownership, and it isn't the only way. If you ENJOY owning a home, [...]

  5. [...] @ Finance Fox writes Maybe Home Ownership Isn’t For You – There is more to life than home ownership, and it isn’t the only way. If you ENJOY [...]

  6. [...] @ Finance Fox writes Maybe Home Ownership Isn’t For You – There is more to life than home ownership, and it isn’t the only way. If you ENJOY [...]

  7. [...] @ Finance Fox writes Maybe Home Ownership Isn’t For You – There is more to life than home ownership, and it isn’t the only way. If you ENJOY [...]